Married, Lee mother propped up this home alone, dawn every morning to get up, feeding chickens, cooking and laundry, busy day and night without stopping. Lee Dad busy with work, away from home, rarely go home throughout the year. The third year after marriage, Li Ya's brother was born. Later, Li Ya was born. That year, her grandfather has passed away, my brother is approaching the age of school, so Lee's father to the unit to apply for two single quarters, the family have received the city.
Li Ya told me, from her memoir, did not see her dad and her mother speak well, each time is not noisy is curse. Once, she saw her dad holding her mother's hair, hard to her mother's head against the wall, her mother scolded curse, she and her brother scared to cry.
Li Ya said: "When I was a kid, I was especially scared of fighting and fights. Every time I clenched my fist, I trembled. I was especially jealous of my classmates' A nightmare, my dad is a devil to me, and I do not want to see him, to tell you the truth, I have not called his father for many years.
I listened very stunned, out of Shakespeare in my mind a word, unhappy marriage is like hell, a fight for life goose fighting, no safety. Psychological research also shows that most of the children who grow up in this family are more sensitive, vulnerable and inferiority. Many adults will feel like family members and marriages like adorable adults.
In 1997, Lee Papa laid off. In order to earn money, he went to Beijing to work with the project manager on the site. Since then, the family quiet down. In order to subsidize household, mother Lee followed the fellow relatives in the bazaars put a fruit stand, day and night daring to earn a few hard-working money.
After returning to Beijing rarely go home, on time every month to send siblings living expenses. In order to earn more money, mother Lee started a vegetable wholesale business. Every day the sun and rain, making her older than their peers a lot, his face black and red, just over 40 white hair a third, wrinkles prematurely climbed his forehead and eyes. Li Ya brothers and sisters sometimes get out of school to help the market, but her mother always let them go home to write, do not let them intervene.
My brother did not study well and graduated from junior high school to a technical school. He was 19 when he was a worker. With less money at home and more wages, the state of the economy has eased. However, the number of father Lee returned home is getting less and less, each New Year spent three days at home, hurriedly rushed back to Beijing. In the meantime, the number of money he sent to his home has also been significantly reduced. Once a month, the renminbi can now be re-used in three months.
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