Once, a girl told me that she and her boyfriend to get married, but there was a dispute on the bride price. Her parents told her that the bride price must be, and not too little; her friends around with her, how much bride price on behalf of the man on your degree of attention. But boyfriend said that there was not so much money, she really did not know how to do
Many problems seem different, but their nature is similar, there is no self-girls in China, because they are so small. A child decided to do the parents to do, go to college to leave their parents to school protection, the economy can not be independent, grow up parents want them not to marry far, because the bully without her family support. Many girls, the first three decades of life are not as an independent and complete person, alone in this society to live a day.
So they never know what kind of person they are, what they really thought about is what kind of life. Every time I met a girl said, I do not know what I want, I only know that this is not what I want. I will say, lying in bed, hidden in the decision of my parents, you will never know where their own direction in the end, but also complained that the original control of the parents is too strong, the pot gave parents back.
And I have exchanged the question of the girls, every time after listening to nod, such as ramming garlic, and then there is no. I am not qualified to blame them for their weakness, because it is not easy to get the right to choose their own, it is likely to fall badly, and finally failed to return, or even better than the parents arranged under the life , No one has this courage and courage. We often listen to others say to "love yourself", like the leaves of the same good dragon, but if the dragon really came, many people are overwhelmed, is to be scared to death.
Back to the text of the girl side of the problem "I can not just love him, let him love me?" If a person's luck is good enough, of course. But also accompanied by a huge risk, that is, he suddenly one day do not love you, he no longer want to accompany you, no longer take care of you, no longer give you a decision.
So you see no matter what, you will be awakened by the reality, or else to become a little brave. The girls can think about it, but it often takes a lifetime to think clearly and really realize it, this process is long and painful, but once realized, will be brighter, harvest the inner happiness.
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