A few days ago friends about to eat, after eating a girlfriend living near my home along the way to send me home. When I was sitting in the co-pilot, I found the back of the chair very backward tilt, but I did not have the nerve to say. She found, told me that you tune the chair back, sit comfortably. So the whole car only know the steering wheel of me, silently study how to adjust the back, pressing all the buttons in the vicinity is still not successful. The girl went off, opened my side of the door, squat body to me tune, but also ask this angle comfortable, uncomfortable and then by the front point. I suddenly touched a bit.
Think of last year, my colleagues and customers to eat, take several cars to go, I got a customer car, because the first day of understanding, on the train and found the chair very front, the back seat piled things, so I move things Open, and then want to push the chair back. Get half a day without success, just blame me too stupid. I told the customer said: "Can you trouble me to adjust the chair back? Thank you friends." The results of this customer a look of surprise, laughed and asked me: "girl ah, you are not just entering the city today Yeah, the first time I heard that some people will not adjust the chair.You are just coming to work soon for the first time to ride the car? Is it from the textile mill to jump over ah? You will drive the door to learn quite fast "
Maybe he is feeling that he is very humorous, maybe I am a bit glassy heart. But I can be sure that only one thing is a person, laughing, facing a first time to meet people so joking, not polite.
We often talk about interpersonal aspects of the word there are two, education and emotional intelligence. I think that deep upbringing is something that emanates from the heart. Simply put, a cultured person knows how to respect others and sympathize with others. The face of a familiar and others unfamiliar things, do not show off, no ridicule, not domineering.
The same is true of EQ, we talk, in the final analysis, the best result is that people are comfortable, listen to people are comfortable. Some people seem to confuse the EQ and the lips, and feel that they are shivering in their words and overwhelming others to show their clever minds. But these hard-edged people may be very smart, my mind turned very fast, but the popularity is not very good.
This world has a relationship, called friends, synonyms have girlfriends, there are iron buddy, and then rely on a little, there are "acquaintances." With strangers, and even the first time to meet people, to open some unthinking joke, most of the time, others will only feel that your education is not good.
I like to get close to people who feel warm. Because it makes me feel comfortable and relaxed. I think you must have seen such a person, warm and, like the sun is like spring. Chatting together to talk about what topic, you do not feel in the argument, not even persuade, together in the noisy also happy, even if the silence, it also makes you do not feel embarrassed.
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